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• who moderates this site? How can you allow such drivel to be published like it is fact? Women absolutely do not perpetuate the majority of abuse against children. Biological fathers absolutely are not the least likely to abuse their children. There is no hysteria over child abuse, just a lack of bloody action and punishment of offenders. It is everyones right to open their mouth to voice an opinion and absolutely their responsibility to make sure it is an informed one. Once again, this blog proves to be a farce

  Patrick Saturday 19 March, 2011 - 8:20 AM

• The whole DVO thing is a joke. My evil ex lied her backside off, and purjerd herself. I asked my solicitor to make a complaint but she said it wasn't worth it as they all purjur themselves. Now she is using it against me in Family Court.

  stuiie Monday 14 March, 2011 - 12:08 PM

• I am so frustrated with the whole system.
  My son is now divorced and has had to endure a complaint to HR at his place of work a DVO all of which were found to be false but it cost us money to defend and now refusal by his ex wife to give him access to his son.
  The original orders allowed for 50/50 custody. This was changed verbally when my grandson attended school. With the melecious and vindictive attacks that have been waged waged during the last 12 months and defending these actions it has been financially draining. The latest round is where my sons ex wife has accused him of being suicidal and has now refused hime access.Asked to provide evidence she has not. Even when we spoke to a lawyer and she rang ??? to advise her that unless she complied with the order she would be in breach ?? replied who cares. When my son went to pick up my grandson on Sunday he was not there. Phone calls to ?? said too bad. We have now gone back to the lawyers and she has drafted a nother letter demanding access. Somewhow I dont think this will do any good. Even the Federal Police say they will take now action. Of course my son could go and size my grandson from school however he believes this will cause harm to his son. We now have to put up with this crazy sytem and send more letters, hope ?? comes to mediation or enventually spending more money in court. It appears the mother has all the cards and the fathers have to spend the money.

  Graham Monday 8 March, 2010 - 9:44 PM

• The entire Family law situation is so biased towards legitimate concerns raised by the father, allegations of improper behavior raised by the child(son)against his mother,given in Police interview,twice! the father ridiculed and ganged up at court,now the father is fighting to see his son and the Police investigation was compromised by the actions of the court,and the best of all DHS did nothing for 15 days and now are trying to cover their backsides by blaming everything else they can

  michael Monday 1 February, 2010 - 9:29 AM

• The hysteria over child abuse is because feminists and spoiled women who have had all the rights before are now resorting to false accusations to maintain !00% control and deny the father any access. The facts are that most child abuse is done by mothers.......in absence of the father. Children are far far safer in a fathers care then in a mothers care.....although they might not like the additional restrictions......eg....single mothers tend to let their kids do anything....fathers exercise more control. But don't take my word for it.....look at the stats.....most children killed by a parent are killed by the mother.....most injuries are inflicted by the mother.....statistically......the biological father is the least likely person on earth to hurt a child. Fathers are also much more likely to risk life and limb protecting their children....while the most mothers do is call for men to come and help. Numerous cases in recent media show this conclusively.

  Stu Saturday 30 January, 2010 - 4:35 PM

• I'm here watching, helpless and wishing that the systems would change so that children can be protected like they claime. I watch my friends children regress, smell the vomit on them as they bring up a meal, hear them say strange things that clear indicate that they have been interferred with in away that is nothing less than SOUL DAMAGING, the system has closed the door on my dear friend as i watch her do what any mother would do & protect her young, but the system has failed her on every account. No police department wants to touch a child sexual abuse case caused by a (father) who has no right to the title, as it's to complicated & the children aren't good witness, that's right they're the VICTIM, so as a socity we will punish them for this and give them no help to find peace between there nightmares, that their mother comforts them from, & while a mother falls apart at the seems because there is no support, & the system will let them go back to a unsafe enviroment, where on a fortnight base these children will continue to play sex games at the hand of the man that claims the title (FATHER) & 15 years from now these same children will be the ones that have done crime, or abuse another child, or committed suicude WAKE UP because it might just be your son or daugther that is in these same childrens class or sadly may even be their victim, when we could have stopped the cycle, we let it breed and plag out lives THE SYSTEM SLEEPS AT NIGHT WHILE THESE CHILDREN HAVE NIGHTMARES & THEIR DREAMS SHATTERED...Mercy on all our souls and prey that we can each help just a little

  Sadness Monday 13 July, 2009 - 4:09 PM