The politics of planning a wedding can get messy.

Who gets an invite and who doesn’t? How many speeches is too many? How do you arrange the seating plan?

Samantha Amjadali from Easy Weddings told Tom Elliott there’s no perfect way to stage the big day.

‘We’re very modern at the moment, not necessarily adhering to tradition,’ Ms Amjadali said.

‘You’ve got to do what’s true to you on such an important day.’

The issue is certainly one a lot of people can relate to.

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